Hello there again !!!!

Sorry for my absence the past few days, seems as if my blogs have hurt some persons, won't name them, but will change how they are viewed in the future. Will not send them in email, "unless" you email me telling me to send them to "you" in particular.

i didn't mean the blogs to ever be hurtful, wanted to start doing this, just to go over what happened in "my" life, think about it as i write it, be sort of funny, cuz i do think everything in life is funny, I even see tragedy funny, after the physical, emotional pain is past, there "is" humor even in death, I think God made it his way, made us residual people, able to work through things, Butch Somsag's favorite quote was, "Mascal, after all, none of us is going to get out of this alive !" and that was soo, sooooo correct...Physical death is real, it's permanent, but....if you believe in life after, it's really not going to be so bad,("my" point of view), we will be there forever with whoever, just think, Elvis, Jim Morrison, Spanky from our gang, my dad, John Gacey, but all will be equal, beautiful, complete, pain free, flowers, good smells, i think frying chicken or bacon, mmmmm chocolate with NO calories,
enough, enough already, you get the darn point !!!! NOW, did that offend anyone??? let me know asap....and i won't go there again, lol

so, omg !!!!! i got my root canal finished, and i don't "remember" if i told you, yah, I "think" i did, so i won't go on, have too look back...brain, where have you gone??????

Had a great, great week end, Stan went to Iowa to see his daughter, soooo, Friday, rain=all day rain, so i took winston and drove to streator, and i cried "all" the way there, just had the blues, soooo blue, but...took my vacuum to streator, visited wonderful Virginia, and she made me soup and her george, oh, he is sooo nice...so we sat and chatted, then went to get my vacuum, and chatted two more hours in the car...worked my blues right away.

Saturday, i spent the afternoon with darrelle, my friend, who is going to Paris tomorrow, first time out of the country for her!!!!! hope she meets a "french man".....and has the time of her life..
and stayed at her house till 2 a.m., oak park, i "thought" it was like 9 p.m.

Sunday, to Streator again to meet my sister, Connie, just sat in chippers for hours, talking, laughing, crying, and, seeing so many people we both knew and hadn't seen for years, now connie is 10 years younger than i, but we "both" saw soo many people, took phone pictures of so many it was wonderful... then it was over to Justines for me to see my grandbabies, and have a wonderful penne pasta/spaghetti sauce, that "J" made, she can cook, i mean she's a "good" cook.
we talked and talked about my head, my right temporal lobe damage from the stroke and the car accident, and i stayed till about 8:30 p.m.
So, I had a good, good weekend, seeing so many people, loving so many and recieving so much love, aren't friends the best in the world to have????? Men may come and go, but friends, can't replace them.

Hey ! i got a "good" book.... "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey !!!!
and, it's just wonderful, i mean to the nitty gritty about how men feel about love, life, responsibilities, and then us, women, oh, man, WE ARE TRULLY DIFFERENT SPECIES...
i gave one to ginia, darrelle, lynn, will send one to justine and i "recommend" all of you get it, even if your a guy, wish i would have read this at 18, would not have made the mistake of marriage, nothing permanent, cuz men don't like "permanence".....

So, it's late, 11:45 p.m., stan has a terrible cold that he got home from iowa with, we even went to palos hospital to the emergency room, they tested him for H1N1, cuz his grandson got it in iowa, but alas, it's just a bad cold, but we had soup and he vixed up his chest and his feet, yes, you read that right, and it WORKS, vix your feet, wear sox to bed and man, relief...i dunno, but it works..and he plans tomorrow in bed all day too, nurses orders, lol

well, i'm sending this to those of you who have said, " i love your blogs, look forward to reading them" and the rest will have to click that link i sent to get here...unless i hear from each one i sent that link too, it's no more go....automatically anyway.

i have a book in my brain, i really do,

Sherry